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Men tend to hold each other to each word. A man will say to another man, “what did you just say?” because he wants to make sure he understood each word. He listens for infractions to his pride or attractions to his interests. Men don’t care why it was said. They care that it was [...]

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When am I the MOST candid?
When I bend my knee, bow my head, clasp my hands, and confess my sins before my God.
Gush, seep, burst, blurt – nice verbs to pronounce but not proper to place in a pronounced place in a relationship. It’s not a question of concealment; it’s the wisdom of proportion. Need [...]

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When a woman is quiet in the midst of turbulence – it’s because she has so many words to say and she hasn’t decided which word should be first. It’s like when you’re chased and you don’t know which direction to place your first step. So you stand still.
When a woman remains quiet, she’s decided [...]

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When someone deceives me, I absolutely confront the moment I’m aware of the situation. Well if I feign ignorance, I’m deceiving someone who has deceived me. The action is the same. The difference isn’t the deed, it’s just the intent.
Now that doesn’t mean I attack – I inquire. I’ll say – “Is that what you [...]

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