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“No!” The word exploded from her mouth as she stepped on a mine they both vowed to avoid. “You explain it to me now! Why’d you have to sleep with her? Why?”
“Are we still together?” he challenged. “Are we baby?”
“That’s not the point!” she bellowed. She smacked her cigarette between her lips and slapped [...]

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The root of the word “infatuation” is fat. Fat = swollen /out of proportion.  Infatuation is when affection is swollen out of proportion.  And then the emotion ceases to be about the objective and is subjective.  Unfortunately for both parties, the subject becomes self.  The object becomes aware of his/her influence on others.  The infatuated [...]

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I don’t believe that human beings can find true love with each other simply by corresponding over the internet. Without physically proximity, one can’t know the inflections or the intentions of another. So all reactions are based on presumption. And that’s fallacious because it’s based on an assumption and not an actuality.
Love is real – [...]

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My sister was recently chosen for Grand Jury duty. It reminded me of serving on a jury in the past. I enjoyed jury duty – although it added validity to the pronouncements of women in my past. “You’re too judgmental” they’d declared. And now I can retort, “but they asked me to be!”

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A woman asked this question on an online networking site:
“I am happily married but yet like to have fun by flirting. I say I am married not dead. Is it ok to flirt?”
And I replied:
Ok there’s a difference between having a good personality and flirting. If you flash your personality at both sexes without editing [...]

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Men can sleep anywhere. We usually do. But – being in a close space the next morning when a man has to share in the light of day without the pretense of courtship or the protection of atmosphere – is an intimacy that can be daunting. It’s uncomfortable. And that’s why we usually try to [...]

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I’ve seen the surveys. I’ve read the questions. I’ve heard the conversations. And now I’ll answer it.
Surveys suggest that the average couple has sex 1-3 times a month. In the real world – I don’t believe there’s a man walking earth that has sex only thrice a month. Well, unless of physical [...]

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In my experience, I’ve almost never had a good second date. If I had a great first date – my expectations for the second were too high and I was disappointed. And if the first date was merely mediocre – I didn’t ask for a second date. Why waste my time?
So unless a woman breaks [...]

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One major difference between men and women in an uncomfortable dating situation is that women need to discuss the discomfort of a situation and men want to discern the most seamless way to find an exit without seeming like a sonofabitch. So when a couple experiences a humiliating experience and the woman feels the need [...]

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1. Ok .. I’ll be honest here. I do in fact make my bed. But not everyday. Well. There are days that I just fall on top of it and sleep like that. I have a duvet. I have a bed skirt and I pillow cases and all that crap. I didn’t buy it but [...]

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Anyway – here’s a little – well let’s just say it’s a hypothetical dating tip:
If you’re going to paint a living room because your hypothetical girlfriend wants “to create a space that reflects the two of us” and you can’t find a drop cloth so you grab a sheet out of the linen closet – [...]

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I love baby giggles.
I love dipping my fingers in the Holy Water font.
I love the feel of corduroy trousers on a crisp autumnal morning.
I love singing along.
I love laughing about women with my best buddy.
I love words.
I love seeing the synchronicity of Divinity and being reminded that God’s there and He remembers that I’m here.
I [...]

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I don’t dance like Travolta.  I did in the 70s.  Although not nearly as well.  Well perhaps if space aliens inhabited my body – but.  And then, women loved that I danced because it was a dancing era.  Any man that danced got a date.
Now, I rarely dance.  Hell, I’ve got a bum foot.  And [...]

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I don’t think of sex all the time. I think about it often. But it’s not in my top 5 things. But passion is my priority. I think about passion all the time. I’m passionate about my faith. I’m passionate about my loves. I’m passionate about coffee. I’m passionate about my politics. I’m passionate about [...]

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Sex and making love are quite different. But both are marvelous. Not each and every action needs to move the earth and move me to tears. Sometimes I just want the joy. Sometimes I just want the release. Sometimes I just want to be held. And sometimes I just want to hold. And sometimes I [...]

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