“No!” The word exploded from her mouth as she stepped on a mine they both vowed to avoid. “You explain it to me now! Why’d you have to sleep with her? Why?”
“Are we still together?” he challenged. “Are we baby?”
“That’s not the point!” she bellowed. She smacked her cigarette between her lips and slapped [...]
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A Part Of A Hole
Posted in Culture, Life, Relationships, Roman Catholicism, tagged Relationships, Culture, Roman Catholicism, Life, Catholic, Theology, Couples, Break-ups, Men & Women, Dating, Courtship, Sex, Men vs Women, Arguments, Ex-Girlfriends, Spirituality, Couple, People, Divorce on July 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Swollen Beyond Recognition
Posted in Culture, Life, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Relationships, Friendship, Random Thoughts, Culture, Male Point of View, Life, Couples, Men & Women, Dating, Friends, Courtship, Sex, Male Behavior, Couple, Romance, People on July 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
The root of the word “infatuation” is fat. Fat = swollen /out of proportion. Infatuation is when affection is swollen out of proportion. And then the emotion ceases to be about the objective and is subjective. Unfortunately for both parties, the subject becomes self. The object becomes aware of his/her influence on others. The infatuated [...]
Lest Ye Be Judged
Posted in Culture, Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Whimsical, tagged Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Ex-Girlfriends, Humor, Life, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
My sister was recently chosen for Grand Jury duty. It reminded me of serving on a jury in the past. I enjoyed jury duty – although it added validity to the pronouncements of women in my past. “You’re too judgmental” they’d declared. And now I can retort, “but they asked me to be!”
Flirting With Disaster
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Adultery, Affairs, Break-ups, Cheating, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Flirt, Flirtation, Flirting, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | 2 Comments »
A woman asked this question on an online networking site:
“I am happily married but yet like to have fun by flirting. I say I am married not dead. Is it ok to flirt?”
And I replied:
Ok there’s a difference between having a good personality and flirting. If you flash your personality at both sexes without editing [...]
Before It Dawns On Us
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Men can sleep anywhere. We usually do. But – being in a close space the next morning when a man has to share in the light of day without the pretense of courtship or the protection of atmosphere – is an intimacy that can be daunting. It’s uncomfortable. And that’s why we usually try to [...]
Men & Sex
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve seen the surveys. I’ve read the questions. I’ve heard the conversations. And now I’ll answer it.
Surveys suggest that the average couple has sex 1-3 times a month. In the real world – I don’t believe there’s a man walking earth that has sex only thrice a month. Well, unless of physical [...]
The Second Time Around
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, Networking, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance on July 7, 2009 | 1 Comment »
In my experience, I’ve almost never had a good second date. If I had a great first date – my expectations for the second were too high and I was disappointed. And if the first date was merely mediocre – I didn’t ask for a second date. Why waste my time?
So unless a woman breaks [...]
Fatal Obstruction
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Arguments, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships on July 6, 2009 | 1 Comment »
One major difference between men and women in an uncomfortable dating situation is that women need to discuss the discomfort of a situation and men want to discern the most seamless way to find an exit without seeming like a sonofabitch. So when a couple experiences a humiliating experience and the woman feels the need [...]
Two Issues I’d Just As Soon Put To Bed
Posted in Culture, Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Whimsical, tagged About Me, Beds, Culture, Dating, Feng Shui, Humor, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men vs Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Sleeping on July 6, 2009 | 1 Comment »
1. Ok .. I’ll be honest here. I do in fact make my bed. But not everyday. Well. There are days that I just fall on top of it and sleep like that. I have a duvet. I have a bed skirt and I pillow cases and all that crap. I didn’t buy it but [...]
A Painting Tip: Avoiding A Smear Campaign
Posted in Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Break-ups, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Ex-Girlfriends, Humor, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Anyway – here’s a little – well let’s just say it’s a hypothetical dating tip:
If you’re going to paint a living room because your hypothetical girlfriend wants “to create a space that reflects the two of us” and you can’t find a drop cloth so you grab a sheet out of the linen closet – [...]
Tastes & Preferences
Posted in Friendship, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Roman Catholicism, tagged Personal, Relationships, Friendship, Random Thoughts, Culture, Roman Catholicism, Male Point of View, Life, Couples, Men & Women, Dating, Friends, Courtship, Romance, Opinion, People, About Me, Kissing, Kisses, Tastes & Preferences on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I love baby giggles.
I love dipping my fingers in the Holy Water font.
I love the feel of corduroy trousers on a crisp autumnal morning.
I love singing along.
I love laughing about women with my best buddy.
I love words.
I love seeing the synchronicity of Divinity and being reminded that God’s there and He remembers that I’m here.
I [...]
Moved
Posted in Life, Music, Personal, Relationships, tagged About Me, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dance, Dancing, Dating, Life, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Music, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I don’t dance like Travolta. I did in the 70s. Although not nearly as well. Well perhaps if space aliens inhabited my body – but. And then, women loved that I danced because it was a dancing era. Any man that danced got a date.
Now, I rarely dance. Hell, I’ve got a bum foot. And [...]
Sole Mate
Posted in Friendship, Life, Male Point of View, My Purpose And Intent, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged About Me, Alone, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Life, Male Point of View, Men & Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Roman Catholicism, Sex, Single, Soul Mates, Spirituality, Theology on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I don’t think of sex all the time. I think about it often. But it’s not in my top 5 things. But passion is my priority. I think about passion all the time. I’m passionate about my faith. I’m passionate about my loves. I’m passionate about coffee. I’m passionate about my politics. I’m passionate about [...]
Sex
Posted in Culture, Life, Relationships, tagged Relationships, Random Thoughts, Culture, Male Point of View, Life, Couples, Men & Women, Dating, Courtship, Sex, Marriage, Men vs Women, Male Behavior, Couple, Romance, People, Making Love on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Sex and making love are quite different. But both are marvelous. Not each and every action needs to move the earth and move me to tears. Sometimes I just want the joy. Sometimes I just want the release. Sometimes I just want to be held. And sometimes I just want to hold. And sometimes I [...]
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