The root of the word “infatuation” is fat. Fat = swollen /out of proportion. Infatuation is when affection is swollen out of proportion. And then the emotion ceases to be about the objective and is subjective. Unfortunately for both parties, the subject becomes self. The object becomes aware of his/her influence on others. The infatuated [...]
Posts Tagged ‘Male Point of View’
Swollen Beyond Recognition
Posted in Culture, Life, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Relationships, Friendship, Random Thoughts, Culture, Male Point of View, Life, Couples, Men & Women, Dating, Friends, Courtship, Sex, Male Behavior, Couple, Romance, People on July 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
The Baldheaded Truth
Posted in Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Whimsical, tagged About Me, Bald, Balding, Culture, Homonyms, Humor, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, People, Personal, Random Thoughts on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Um .. bawled / bald.
Coincidence? I think not.
Random Thoughts
Posted in Culture, Entertainment, Friendship, Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Music, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Whimsical, tagged Baby Boomers, Couple, Couples, Culture, Friends, Friendship, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance, Sex, Spirituality on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
1. If you and your kid are checking the mail to see whose social security check comes first? It’s time he moved.
2. I’m turned off by a woman who only sees life from a feminist point of view. I like women who see the world above the waist.
3. “Get therapy” is a condescending and [...]
The Wait Of A Wallet
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Relationships, tagged Career, Culture, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, People, Relationships, Sex, Sexual Harassment, Work on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Ok … there was a time when I actually was considered “cute” …yeah, you can’t tell by my picture. Now I settle for “well-groomed.” Although, I was recently told by a woman that I was “adorable.” Yeah, well my ego is ignoring the fact that she was in her 80s.
However – when I was younger [...]
Flirting With Disaster
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Adultery, Affairs, Break-ups, Cheating, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Flirt, Flirtation, Flirting, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | 2 Comments »
A woman asked this question on an online networking site:
“I am happily married but yet like to have fun by flirting. I say I am married not dead. Is it ok to flirt?”
And I replied:
Ok there’s a difference between having a good personality and flirting. If you flash your personality at both sexes without editing [...]
Before It Dawns On Us
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Men can sleep anywhere. We usually do. But – being in a close space the next morning when a man has to share in the light of day without the pretense of courtship or the protection of atmosphere – is an intimacy that can be daunting. It’s uncomfortable. And that’s why we usually try to [...]
A 10 Shun
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, tagged Beauty, Culture, Grace Kelly, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, Opinion, People, Random Thoughts on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Ok can we first set the ground rule that “beauty is in the eyes of the beholder” is slather written by a smoothed tongued bastard trying to get laid? True beauty – physical beauty – is obvious. I have never heard the words “Naw, Grace Kelly was a dog!” spoken.
Whatever benefits the beautiful possess – [...]
Men & Sex
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Relationships, Romance, Sex on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve seen the surveys. I’ve read the questions. I’ve heard the conversations. And now I’ll answer it.
Surveys suggest that the average couple has sex 1-3 times a month. In the real world – I don’t believe there’s a man walking earth that has sex only thrice a month. Well, unless of physical [...]
The Second Time Around
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Relationships, tagged Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, Networking, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance on July 7, 2009 | 1 Comment »
In my experience, I’ve almost never had a good second date. If I had a great first date – my expectations for the second were too high and I was disappointed. And if the first date was merely mediocre – I didn’t ask for a second date. Why waste my time?
So unless a woman breaks [...]
It’s All Talk
Posted in Culture, Friendship, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Communication, Couple, Couples, Friends, Friendship, Interaction, Interpersonal Relationships, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, Networking, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Talk on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Men tend to hold each other to each word. A man will say to another man, “what did you just say?” because he wants to make sure he understood each word. He listens for infractions to his pride or attractions to his interests. Men don’t care why it was said. They care that it was [...]
The Way To A Man’s Heart
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Relationships, Roman Catholicism, tagged Catholic, Child Care, Childcare, Children, Culture, Fatherhood, Fathers, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Parenthood, Parenting, Parents, People, Personal, Relationships, Roman Catholicism, Spirituality, Theology on July 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
You know – I don’t know about all men. So I can’t speak for all of us. But I found myself one day wondering if I had made any sort of impact with my life. You know – whether I mattered in the world. I hadn’t any children of my own. I mean – I [...]
Fatal Obstruction
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Arguments, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Random Thoughts, Relationships on July 6, 2009 | 1 Comment »
One major difference between men and women in an uncomfortable dating situation is that women need to discuss the discomfort of a situation and men want to discern the most seamless way to find an exit without seeming like a sonofabitch. So when a couple experiences a humiliating experience and the woman feels the need [...]
Two Issues I’d Just As Soon Put To Bed
Posted in Culture, Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Whimsical, tagged About Me, Beds, Culture, Dating, Feng Shui, Humor, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men vs Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Sleeping on July 6, 2009 | 1 Comment »
1. Ok .. I’ll be honest here. I do in fact make my bed. But not everyday. Well. There are days that I just fall on top of it and sleep like that. I have a duvet. I have a bed skirt and I pillow cases and all that crap. I didn’t buy it but [...]
A Painting Tip: Avoiding A Smear Campaign
Posted in Humor, Life, Male Point of View, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Break-ups, Couple, Couples, Courtship, Culture, Dating, Divorce, Ex-Girlfriends, Humor, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Marriage, Men & Women, Men vs Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Romance on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Anyway – here’s a little – well let’s just say it’s a hypothetical dating tip:
If you’re going to paint a living room because your hypothetical girlfriend wants “to create a space that reflects the two of us” and you can’t find a drop cloth so you grab a sheet out of the linen closet – [...]
Getting Up On The Right Side Of The Bed
Posted in Culture, Life, Male Point of View, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, tagged Beds, Couple, Couples, Culture, Life, Male Behavior, Male Point of View, Men & Women, People, Personal, Random Thoughts, Relationships, Sleep, Sleeping on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I used to hop out of bed. Then as I aged, I jumped out of bed because I was late. Now I roll out of it. I noticed this morning that it doesn’t matter whether I’m alone or not, I have to get out of bed on the right side. And I mean right as [...]